Online gambling is terrible news for SA’s youth

Gambling is not a new phenomenon. From the gleaming slot machines on casino floors to playing “dice” on a random street corner, it has been and continues to be an activity in which many engage – whether young or old. However, online gambling, made accessible largely by smartphones, has become an even more attractive option to those wanting to try their luck.

Social media, Twitter especially, has become a platform where young people routinely share their personal gambling experiences. These are young people who bet on such online sites as Lottostar, Betway, Hollywoodbets and World Sports Betting, for example.

Many of these young men bet continually on football games. They talk openly about this, to the point of sharing screenshots of some of their hefty winnings. What has been distinctly amiss, however, are the converse narratives. What about everyone else who is gambling online but losing?

In 2020, author and media personality Khaya Dlanga took to Instagram and opened up about his younger brother’s suicide. He talked about his struggle with online gambling and how it led to a “spiral of an addiction he could not get himself out [of]”. Perhaps what is exceptionally heartwrenching is Dlanga’s reflection when he writes: “Everyday I look at the R5.40 he left next to the suicide note. Four one rands, two 50 cents and two 20 cent coins.”

The nature of any addiction is such that it rarely ever solely affects the addict. Loved ones, friends and family are affected as well – because we live in community with one another. Because of addiction, there are many stories of pain, loss, regret and shame. There are stories about the world of gambling too and, though rarely, about people overcoming it all and what it takes.

‘Harmless’ beginnings

Melissa Morris is a 27-year-old woman based in Cape Town. She began gambling online in 2015 when KFM, a radio station, was promoting Lottostar. “What bothered me the most was that I had fallen into this trap before I was even 18,” Morris begins.

“I’ve had an ugly taste in my mouth about KFM for the last six years. I think they got into a partnership and it just felt like it was predatory. You can’t swear on the radio but you can advertise gambling?”

Morris says it was easy for her to use Lottostar because the process of depositing money into the platform was relatively simple. This is often the case for a number of these online platforms. Growing up, Morris was exposed to slot machines in pubs that her father frequented. While other children may have snuck into these pubs to score a drink or two, Morris, on the other hand, saw it as a means of potentially making some money. Hence, what may have seemed to be a harmless enough advertisement about Lottostar on KFM, landed quite differently for someone who had already been primed to be vulnerable to the vices of gambling.

“Initially, I would say, ‘What’s R100?’ and eventually began putting in between R500 to R1000,” she says. “You could do it on the phone and it mimicked the slots I was already used to. I kept putting my money in a black hole and eventually didn’t even have money for food. I would get some money back but use that as credit to earn more money in an endless cycle.”

Addiction thrives in secrecy. Morris hid her struggles with Lottostar from her family and friends because she was embarrassed. Not even the lack of food was enough for her to reveal to them her reality at the time.

“To be honest, there were times I just didn’t eat anyway because of my previous eating disorders.”

While Morris acknowledges that no one forced her to make the decisions she made, she does feel that more can and should be done to protect individuals who are vulnerable.

“Not enough is being done to blatantly show that this is a trap. There’s nothing being done to protect vulnerable people. It shouldn’t be advertised on a daytime radio station. If I had had a bank card, I could have linked it to this platform in the hopes of winning this elusive jackpot.”

All-consuming nature

Kamogelo Motsiane is a 25-year-old woman based in Johannesburg. She shares the experience of her close friend, 30-year-old *Linda Myeni, who, for several years, has been addicted to online gambling on Hollywoodbets.

“Her obsession with gambling came from wanting to make a quick buck so she can maintain her drug habit. She’s been on CAT on and off, Motsiane begins. “She can bet as little as 10 cents so she can win enough for her to believe that she can then up the stakes.”

Myeni initially kept her gambling addiction a secret, Motsiane says. However, once it was out in the open, she became a lot more comfortable in showing her friend the reality of her addiction.

“She was now comfortable with asking me to buy her a voucher or airtime. Now we’re at a point where when we spend time together, she spends the whole day on her phone gambling.”

Myeni, who has a diploma in information technology, struggles to hold down a job.

“She doesn’t have a hard time getting a job but she doesn’t keep it for very long. It’s hard to maintain a job when you’re devoting all your time and money towards gambling,” says Motsiane. “She has been unemployed for a year and is living with her mom now. She’ll constantly try and hassle her mom or me for airtime or a voucher to use to gamble.”

Motsiane also shares how her friend’s mother also has a history of gambling. She has not, however, actively gambled in the last two years. As in Morris’ case, it is apparent that Myeni was exposed to gambling when she was a child. She saw her mother consumed by it. (…)

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